From the Inside Out: With Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein

#132: When We See You Again: Grief, Trust & the Light That Comes Through with Rachel Goldberg-Polin

• Rivkah and Eda • Season 2 • Episode 132

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Rachel Goldberg-Polin on Faith, Grief, and Meaning After Hersh’s Captivity | From the Inside Out


Hosts Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein interview educator and author Rachel Goldberg-Polin about her book When We See You Again, her family’s life in Jerusalem, and the loss of her son Hersh Goldberg-Polin, who was taken hostage from the Nova Music Festival on October 7 and later murdered after 328 days in captivity. Rachel recounts her path into Orthodox Jewish life starting in eighth grade at an Orthodox day school, describes how tefillah and Torah have sustained her, and shares how Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning—relayed to her through released hostage Or Levy—became a tool for enduring suffering by finding purpose. She discusses Modeh Ani, trust in Hashem amid uncertainty, grief as an expression of love, “toxic positivity” versus “tragic optimism,” and verses and teachings that frame this world as a hallway to the next.



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Rachel Goldberg-Polin

Rachel Goldberg-Polin is an educator, mother, and author of the #1 New York Times bestseller When We See You Again. Born in Chicago and now based in Jerusalem with her husband Jon and their daughters, Rachel became a voice that moved millions during the 328 days her son Hersh was held hostage in Gaza after being taken from the Nova Music Festival on October 7th. Hersh was murdered in captivity alongside five other hostages. Through her writing and speaking, Rachel continues to share the rare wisdom, faith, and tragic optimism she has carried through unimaginable loss — opening up something in the souls of everyone she touches.

You can find Rachel’s new book here: https://a.co/d/0hhTa1wK 



CHAPTERS

00:00 Meet Rachel Goldberg-Polin

01:59 Tzedakah and Opening Blessing

02:59 Choosing Torah and Mitzvot

06:01 First Day at Orthodox School

09:13 Learning Shabbat and Davening

11:51 Always Learning Jewish Wisdom

13:17 Hersh and Frankl in Captivity

20:16 Sponsor Break OkClarity

21:37 Trusting Hashem Without Answers

26:38 Modeh Ani After October 7

34:56 Broken Heart and Kintsugi

39:57 Living With Loss and Telling Truth

42:58 Book Not a Memoir

43:37 Hallway to Next World

46:11 Living Without Answers

46:57 Nova Festival Chesed

48:43 One Act of Kindness

52:26 Love Stronger Than Death

54:58 Finding Joy After Loss

59:13 Broken but Still Me

01:02:33 Toxic Positivity Antidote

01:04:55 Hashem Gives and Takes

01:07:14 Thank God I Believe

01:07:59 God Doesnt Ask Us

01:12:13 Closing Quotes and Blessings




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